In this heartfelt episode, Katie and Deborah open up about the challenges of our performance-based culture and the overwhelming pressure to meet expectations. Finding rest in vulnerability from fresh personal experiences, they explore the difference between a “spirit of excellence” that demands perfection and an “excellent spirit” that flows through vulnerability. Their candid conversation reveals how deadlines and responsibilities can trigger self-reliance instead of respite.

Their honest conversation examines how childhood experiences shape our emotional responses and beliefs about self-worth into adulthood. Katie shares her journey through heartbreak that uncovered deeper issues of self-worth. Deborah offers insights on how finding rest in vulnerability means recognizing when we’re operating from performance rather than rest.

In a culture that often measures women’s worth by productivity and perfectionism, choosing vulnerability and embracing rest becomes a radical act of resistance. The podcast encourages women to release the exhausting performance of having it all together. Through authentic conversations that blend tears with laughter, women discover that rest isn’t just about physical relaxation—it’s about spiritual and emotional unburdening.

Together, they share how unresolved trauma manifests in our daily lives and provide practical guidance for finding peace amid chaos. This episode invites listeners finding rest in vulnerability as a pathway to freedom; especially for women navigating trauma and loss.


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If you're here, something happened. Loss shifted the ground under you, and you're looking for a way through. I'm Deborah Larson, Grief Strategist and founder of Redeeming Her... and Him. With my cohost, Katie Shive, we walk alongside those navigating loss — bringing practical strategy and spiritual truth to the work of rebuilding.